by Chris Carroll aka Book
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(c)July 2013 All rights reserved This article is the sole property of the author and CAN NOT be reprinted in any format without express written permission of the author.
I do. Why just the other day I was working in a field wearing jean cutoffs, army boots and not a damn thing else and let me tell you sister, I looked fucking good I knew I looked good. I was trying to look good. Fuck the fact that it was fifty degrees out. That just made me sweat which made me shine. I was a glowing beacon of fuckability. Cars were stopping by the side of the road. Woman were fanning themselves with Elle Magazine while watching me and sipping iced tea. I was turning straight men gay. So imagine my surprise when not one of them tried to hit me over the head and have at me. Imagine my surprise when none of the woman tried drugging me or even, as some women are shy, using a blow gun from a distance to take my elephant arse down. I mean I was dressed for it I OBVIOUSLY WANTED IT RIGHT?
I can’t believe how often this comes up on Fet. I also can’t believe some inbred little shit is getting her jollies on how pissed off she made everyone by playing the old “Rape Culture” card again.
It doesn’t fucking matter how they are dressed. It doesn’t fucking matter where they are or what they are doing.
CONSENT IS THE SEXIEST FUCKING THING IN THE WORLD.
Not saying anything IS NOT THE SAME AS SAYING YES.
SAYING NO ISN’T FUCKING FOREPLAY.
Get it through your damn fucking heads. We can play our little scenes and our little games but if there isn’t consent you are a fucking criminal and will be, if I ever find out, treat you as such.
Oh, and while we’re on the subject… what is up with this “Oh, you’re just freaking out. Calm down, count to ten and we’ll try again?” If she says no, or yellow, or red why the fuck haven’t you pulled up your dommy pants and sat the fuck down already? Three times in two days I’ve heard stories of so called brilliant masters of the art of BDSM taking a sub’s opinion as a momentary weakness and pushing on regardless freaking the sub out to the point of aggravation and anger. At what point did your head get so far up your ass that you thought what you wanted mattered in the face of the sub who you claim as yours? She owes you nothing. She’ll give you everything if you treat her write ( Self fucking BDSM 101- Getting your head out of your own anus)
END RANT
Yes play rape is a very dangerous slippery slope indeed and threat type of fine line of from a good idiot turning into a vicious criminal and rapist actually it almost question the life style of BDSM why be in it I know Canada Legal system this criminal actually a hubby lovely spooning his sleeping wife now he is rapist lets flip this around he is a sleep wifey wakes up (“awe sexy cute hubby I know I will give him a bj”) now by rites she broke the law but no she didn’t it won’t recognized it will laughed off hubby other yeah he won’t say anything I know I was that hubby too at one time hey I loved my sexy adoring wife and she did a amazing bj’s 🙂 we also did switch again no complaints here as probably not to many hubbies or boy friends would.
Now getting to female side my dad would my mom at any given time to him she was his girl she told he raped her to be sure she belong to him my grandpa should’ve shot him he was going to back then out the country Mounties rarely got around hmm much like today to a RCMP out the country roads is almost slim to none never back to
this lets look a Jean Gomeshi the CBC radio honest he was lucky and BDSM had nothing to do with him all it was inclusive evidence the de-crediting letters botched investigations allowing the victims to about was the receipt for failure to convict the lucky little S.O.B. with his victory I hope learned something from that *shaking my head nope not likely * I saved a fellow coworker and friend from future assault crime he had this big idea to tie up a girl that he met in bar oh boy so he was asking me about it I told yeah don’t do it not good forget about it.
Now we good Doms and Master that are experienced even they can misread a sub girl sometimes myself I very hesitated to play now days I was working safety consent form clause that when video recorded signed by said slave (boy or girl) the onus was taken off the top,Dom or Master in the court of law in Canada as such unlawful and forcible restrained or detaining playing sex assault and due pain that was willing request by the said person of bottom (slave or sub) I myself will still do switch but today I’m a sadist role playing with a new hopefully to become my loving girlfriend and life long sole mate until expire she claim to be my slave girl(????) that time will tell rush into anything nope not on my life forget lol try a few things out set ground rules oh yes for sure just like dangerous work be pepared practice safety measures all the time and this thing is I wish I wasn’t born that way “Hunger For Bondage and BDSM yes like you idiots you are born into bondage fetishes BDSM either dear dad your loving you are the beast you can’t escape it the one that pretend are just that.
him thanks I will have to write this in my profile
Glad to find this forum. I have been subject to much abuse. And my NO!!! means nothing in the area of the US I live in. However I have had person after person make excuses as to why I deserve to be abused/raped. I have heard this about myself and other vicitms too. You are given a lecture by your community as to why you deserve it. Not one thing said NOT ONE about the fact that a crime has been committed or that any top has any responsibility. It was always the way I was fucking up. This caused Complex PTSD that I had to get help for on my own in the vanilla world. Turns out there is NOTHING wrong with me and there never was! Cluster B personality disordered persons are my problem!
I am STILL dealing with this today. I took on some of the “powers that be” without any result or any concern for me personally, or anyone else out there. I can go through any forum out there and see the “they deserve it” mentality. It makes me sick.
I am glad there is someone out there who can speak the truth and thinks the way I do. The LAW IS THE LAW! period!